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Everyday conversations

Real communication happens in context. This page provides practical dialogues and phrases for common situations you'll encounter in China. Study these patterns — they're templates you can adapt by swapping vocabulary. Pay attention to the natural flow of conversation, which often differs from textbook Chinese.

At a restaurant

Dining out in China follows predictable patterns. The waiter will ask how many people, show you to a table, and take your order. Here's a typical exchange to help you navigate ordering with confidence:

服务员: 🔊 请问几位?
客人: 🔊 两位。
服务员: 🔊 请坐。这是菜单。
(Later)
客人: 🔊 我要宫保鸡丁和米饭。
服务员: 🔊 好的。喝什么?
客人: 🔊 一杯绿茶。

Waiter: How many people?
Customer: Two.
Waiter: Please sit. Here's the menu.
(Later)
Customer: I'd like Kung Pao chicken and rice.
Waiter: OK. What to drink?
Customer: A cup of green tea.

Paying

In China, mobile payment (WeChat Pay and Alipay) is ubiquitous — often more common than cash or cards. These phrases will help you pay in any format:

  • 🔊 买单/结账 (Mǎidān/Jiézhàng) — The bill, please
  • 🔊 可以刷卡吗?(Kěyǐ shuākǎ ma?) — Can I pay by card?
  • 🔊 可以用微信吗?(Kěyǐ yòng Wēixìn ma?) — Can I use WeChat?

Shopping

In markets and smaller shops, bargaining is expected — the first price quoted is rarely the final price. Start by asking the price, express surprise that it's too expensive, suggest a lower price, and negotiate from there. These phrases are your bargaining toolkit:

ChinesePinyinMeaning
🔊 多少钱?Duōshao qián?How much?
🔊 太贵了Tài guì leToo expensive
🔊 便宜一点Piányi yìdiǎnCheaper please
🔊 我买这个Wǒ mǎi zhègeI'll buy this
🔊 不要了Búyào leI don't want it

Getting around

Navigating Chinese cities is easier than you might expect — public transportation is excellent and well-signed. These phrases help you ask for directions, find metro stations, and navigate by taxi. For taxis, showing your destination written in Chinese is often easier than trying to pronounce it:

ChinesePinyinMeaning
🔊 ...在哪儿?...zài nǎr?Where is...?
🔊 怎么走?Zěnme zǒu?How do I get there?
🔊 一直走Yìzhí zǒuGo straight
🔊 左转Zuǒ zhuǎnTurn left
🔊 右转Yòu zhuǎnTurn right
🔊 地铁站Dìtiě zhànMetro station
🔊 远吗?Yuǎn ma?Is it far?

Small talk

Chinese small talk differs from Western conventions. "Have you eaten?" (你吃了吗?) is a greeting, not an actual question about food — the expected answer is "yes" regardless of whether you've eaten. Personal questions about marriage, children, salary, and age are normal and show interest, not intrusion:

ChinesePinyinMeaning
🔊 你吃了吗?Nǐ chī le ma?Have you eaten? (common greeting)
🔊 你做什么工作?Nǐ zuò shénme gōngzuò?What do you do for work?
🔊 你结婚了吗?Nǐ jiéhūn le ma?Are you married?
🔊 你有孩子吗?Nǐ yǒu háizi ma?Do you have children?
🔊 中国怎么样?Zhōngguó zěnmeyàng?How do you like China?

Note: Personal questions are normal in Chinese culture and show interest.


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